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9 Important Life Lessons For All

1. It’s good to fail

Failure is a scary word and we often try to hide it from our friends, but you shouldn’t because failure is good! This is why I want to thank all the people who crossed my path, either for years at a time or for just a simple discussion; people I met face to face and people I met online; on Facebook or from leaving a comment on my blog. Every single one of you, every interaction I had with you, made me the person I am today and I am thankful for that!

2. It doesn’t matter what other people think

This one has been a hard lesson to learn. I have always had many dreams and projects in mind. For example: writing a book, starting a blog, traveling, etc. And when I talk about them I often receive negative answers. My first tip is to get rid of people that are bringing you down. Then just let them talk, don’t take it personally most of the time the negative and snarky comments reflect their own insecurities. Just do what you want, follow your dreams, and ignore them!

3. Hard work always pays off

Either for your career or your personal projects, know that if you work hard, you can make anything happen. But here is the catch. You need to work smart. Meaning that you first need to learn the steps to make it happen. If you want to lose weight you need to learn about food and exercise. If you want to advance in your career, you need to gain new skills. There are so many ways to learn:

Watch YouTube videos
Read articles
Listen to podcasts
Take classes

Once you have acquired the knowledge you need, make a plan with deadlines to push you to stick to it! And remember if it doesn’t work, it’s okay because you acquired new knowledge and experiences that will make you more likely to succeed the next time!

4. You need to learn how to say no

When was the last time you felt overwhelmed? It was probably because you had too much on your plate. This is why you need to learn how to say no.

You don’t have to go to happy hour with your coworkers or friends every week.
You don’t have to bake a cake for school or work.
You don’t have to drink alcohol every time you go out.
You don’t have to go to 5 Christmas parties in 2 weeks.
You don’t have to wear pink every Wednesdays
You don’t have to please everybody.

You have the permission to say no when you feel like it.

5. More money doesn’t make you happier

The more I grew in my career and my salary increased, the more I realized that I was stressing out. Here’s the thing: For one, with money comes responsibilities. Also, when you make more money, you will adapt your lifestyle to it. Meaning that you will spend more money.

For example, you will buy a house adding more to your bills, you will buy the newest iPhone while the old one still works, you will go out to more expensive restaurants and become more picky about food. So the more you make money, the more you spend.

But in today’s economy, there’s no job security. Especially when you work in the tech industry like me. So not only are you scared about keeping your job, but also about finding a job that will allow you to maintain your new, more expensive, lifestyle. So instead of focusing on money, you should focus on your happiness.

6. Communication is key for a successful relationship

My spouse and I are happy. I feel very close to him. But I’m going to be honest and let you know that it wasn’t always the case. About a year ago we were fighting all the time for very small things and our relationship became toxic. It was like we couldn’t stand each other anymore. But one day we talked and realized that a lot of our issues came from the way we communicated with each other. We worked on that and are now much happier. We joke around all the time, which rarely happened a year ago.

Here are a few tips:

Listen to your spouse.
When you are getting upset get away from the situation before saying stupid things.
If something is bothering you, say it, but not when you are mad. Start a discussion when you are both in a good
mood so you can solve the problem.
Don’t talk down to your spouse, you are equal partners.
Don’t point the finger but express your feelings.

7. You need to be flexible

If you know me, you are aware that I always make plans! Once I reach a goal, I need a new one or I feel lost. But life will often steer you into new directions that you never expected. So making plans is good, and you should have plans, but don’t be scared of changing them!

8. Stay away from toxic people

My first tip is to get rid of people that are bringing you down. Then just let them talk, don’t take it personally most of the time the negative and snarky comments reflect their own insecurities. Just do what you want, follow your dreams, and ignore them!

The idea is simple: if someone is bringing you more drama than laughter and happiness, then just stop seeing them. It may seem to be mean, but why waste time with someone that you know will upset you? Don’t you have other more important things to do than worry about gossip and drama? Since I made this decision, I am happier and have no more drama in my life!

This rule also works for Facebook and other social media platforms. If you see toxic people in a group or on your feed, just block them!

9. Giving will make you happier

I always love giving! I love giving my time to meet new people, I love giving my knowledge, I love giving a smile to strangers, I love giving gifts for Christmas. You should give what you can whenever you can. Not only will people appreciate you more, but it will also make you happier!

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