Dad May Be Discharged Soon

Being a government servant or civil employee in a school as a teacher, dad is entitled to free treatment in the General Hospital after a fall in the toilet. Days later, he had a clot in the brain and was promptly sent to the GH for treatment. Well, they did nothing to dad other than give him food and check him. No angiogram which was scheduled for the day and it was cancelled last minute due to lack of manpower. Imagine only 2 male nurses on duty for the whole ward of 40 male patients. That is why they bypass my dad and served their own kind, the Malay chap.

After 5 days of no angiogram and dad was almost lifeless, refusing to eat and soaked in his urine without bath for 3 days, youngest sister suggested St John’s ambulance which we paid $150 to transfer him to a private hospital and he was immediately attended to after I paid the deposit of $6k. He went into the Accident and Emergency ward and they cleaned his wound, put on drips, etc. Such is the excellent service when you go to the private hospital with money. Frankly, dad might not have survived up to today if he had continued staying in GH, and luckily my sister made the decision to send him to a private hospital, where the bills are split by 3 of us!

Year of the Gold Dog – Happy Chinese New Year!

gold dog

This is the year of the dog. In 1970, it was the year of the Gold Dog. I would like to take this opportunity to wish my readers a Happy Chinese New Year. May you prosper even more with gold flowing into your pockets. That fortune is made and families are well provided for. Later on have to run errands for dad who is hospitalised and change the M size non-powdered latex gloves to S size. It has to be non-powdered as dad has eczema of the skin. I just hope the pharmacy is opened today and later on fetch 2nd sister for dinner as the hospital canteen is closed and she really needs a break away from dad, being with him almost 24 hours for the last few weeks.

The hospital bills have ballooned to $28k, after staying there since 26th January 2018. Dad is recovering well and making progress every day. He fell down and got clot in the brain where his neurosurgeon and neurologist gave him medicine to remove the blood clot without surgery. Dad would not have survived had he been put in General Hospital after 1 week of being unattended to, other than given food and being soaked in urine and did not bathe for 3 days! He was so miserable there. Just pray for his longevity and good health to return at this age of 81. The bill will be shared by me, youngest sister, and a friend.

Happy Valentine’s Day

Some marriages break down due to financial difficulties, incompatibility, hot-temperedness, and a host of other issues – relevant or irrelevant. If I do get married some day to someone special, I hope it will last forever and not just a lifetime. There is life after death and it is better to be with someone who is totally single and unattached. Married men with double spouses can cause complications and in-laws are also a main cause! Just because someone is computer literate and you are NOT, you want to put down the other person due to this status, in order to elevate yourself and look like a heroine! That’s why cancer festers in you due to so much hatred and revenge!

Anyway, enough of rantings on this special day! I got myself a gift online from a store paid by someone special. I think we are of the same frequency and understand each other. The current relationship is a sham. It is only a matter of time before it falls apart. There are just too many complications and embarassments in public that makes it toxic. I may be financially well provided, because I work hard while the estranged wife gets paid thousands for doing nothing. Such is the complexity of this 3 way relationship plus bankruptcy status! This person is very insecure and makes himself look good by teaching others through the Whatsapp family group!

Anyway, I am delighted of my gift and wish you all Happy Valentine’s Day!

Get Intimate Lingerie for your Loved Ones This Valentines

Love is a feeling. It is to share, care and do things together for your partner and share a lifelong relationship together wholeheartedly. And not two-timing your spouse while keeping a wife or someone at at the same time. It should be a monogamous relationship. Valentine’s day is just round the corner and in 2 days time! Why not check out Sexy Lingerie at TheLovelyShop123.com for your loved ones/ spouses/ partners / lovers, etc.

Pamper the love of your life with some intimate, romantic gifts for the year. For the record, Saint Valentine (Italian: San Valentino, Latin: Valentinus), officially Saint Valentine of Rome, is a widely recognized 3rd-century Roman saint commemorated on February 14 and since the High Middle Ages is associated with a tradition of courtly love. So there, you have it, the history of Valentine’s day.

Buy Online Contest Votes

I woke up at 5:00 am at the crack of dawn and promptly decided to surf online for information. Then I came across about where to get Facebook votes/IP votes/contest votes, Facebook photo likes by using the link below >> buy online contest votes. This is the quickest way to give a good first impression to your website or Facebook contests to win some great gifts by getting the most online votes in a jiffy. Yes, the internet provides such services from the above-mentioned company that has a huge list of votes at a bargain and does not have to break the bank.

With intense competition to win some cool stuffs, it is imperative that you buy online contest votes for just pennies a click while gaining attention and get the most votes over your competitors who did not employ such tactics to gain a wide audience to your fan page or contest website. There is superb customer support, easy setup, different IP (internet protocol), and fast turnaround time.

Now, with the internet, everything is made possible via technology. You can find romance, win awesome expensive prices by buy votes for a bargain, work from home, find freelance jobs, do internet banking and much more. For the record, there are 1.6 million freelancers in Malaysia working from home, thus saving gasoline from commuting to work and most of all, precious time from getting stuck in snarling traffic jams.

Confident People Vs Insecure People

Here, I shall only highlight traits of confident people. You can refer to the infographic for insecure ones which I don’t wish to mention. Basically confident people are Open Minded and Gives Complements. They are not afraid to ask and are willing to learn from other people or have a mentor. Confident people operates on principles and admits mistakes. They are not afraid to show flaws and such. They are positive thinkers and risk takers. Also, they never talk negatively about others or put others down in order to elevate themselves!

They are abundance mindset giver and loves people. They are more forgiving and accepts other’s differences, while at the same time, can laugh at themselves. More importantly, they make decisions quickly and take action. They also keep learning and growing. For the not so good comparison, refer to the picture or infographic and try to avoid these traits and stay away from people with such traits.

Celine Dion – My Heart will Go On

This coming Valentine’s day, check out the romantic song by Celine Dion and movie of The Titanic of 2 lovers in love with each other. Regardless of the sad ending as you know the Titanic sank, with its port of berth from Southampton, where second sister is staying, it shows 2 young lovers enjoying each other’s company despite the differences, rants and eventual reconciliation. It is a touching story and I saw this movie twice in Singapore while living there. Now a special friend introduced this movie to me again and it reminds me of my youth and not to waste it away by being in a complicated relationship that sees no future.

That is why it is better to live your Dream, than to get hired and live other people’s Dream! You will be your own boss and no one can dictate his terms and conditions and be working at odd hours most of the time. I would love to go on a cruise or a holiday somewhere in Asia with someone special.

It is not easy going for holidays with a very hot tempered traveling companion, where you have to foot most of the bill. I did enjoy myself overseas, but it would have been better to spend it with someone special especially this coming Valentine’s day in 1 week’s time. Treasure your friendship and don’t shoot down every sentence one says. It takes two to tango, one leading while the other following. Just like it takes 2 hands to clap.

The Greatest Showman

P. T. Barnum and his father, Philo, a tailor, work for the Hallett family, and he becomes infatuated with their daughter Charity. Though Charity is being sent to finishing school, Barnum reassures her they will not be separated. The two keep in touch through letters until they meet again in adulthood (“A Million Dreams”), eventually marrying and raising two daughters in New York City (“A Million Dreams (Reprise)”). They live a humble life; though Charity is happy, Barnum dreams of more.

Barnum loses his job as a clerk at a shipping company after the company goes bankrupt. Taking a risky bet, he takes out a large loan from a bank, deceiving the bank into accepting his former employer’s lost ships as collateral. He uses this loan to buy Barnum’s American Museum in downtown Manhattan, an attraction showcasing various wax models. Initially, sales are slow; on the suggestion of his children to showcase something “alive”, he searches for “freaks” to serve as performers for his museum (“Come Alive”). This attracts a large audience, despite protests and poor reviews, prompting Barnum to rename his venture “Barnum’s Circus”.

Searching for ways to further his reputation amongst the upper class, he meets playwright Phillip Carlyle and convinces him to join his venture (“The Other Side”). Carlyle is enchanted with Anne Wheeler, an African-American trapeze artist, but he hides his feelings. During a trip Carlyle arranged for Barnum and his troupe to meet Queen Victoria, Barnum meets Jenny Lind, a famed Swedish singer, whom he convinces to perform in America, with him serving as her manager. Lind’s first American performance is a rousing success (“Never Enough”). While Barnum gains favor with the aristocratic patrons, he begins to distance himself from his original troupe, refusing to socialize with them. Dejected, they decide to stand against their local harassers (“This Is Me”).

Carlyle and Wheeler attend the theatre together one night, only to run into Carlyle’s parents, who insult Wheeler’s lowly status, causing her to leave. Carlyle chases her, trying to convince her that they can be together, but she rejects him despite her feelings towards him (“Rewrite the Stars”). As Barnum takes Lind on a U.S. tour, Charity feels isolated from her husband as she stays home with their children (“Tightrope”). While on tour, Lind begins falling in love with Barnum, but when he refuses her advances, she calls off the tour and kisses him at the end of her last show, which is photographed by the press (“Never Enough” reprise). Barnum returns home to find his circus on fire, caused by a fight between the protesters and the troupe. Carlyle, who had tried to save Anne not knowing she had already escaped, is rescued amid the chaos by Barnum but suffers severe burns. Most of the sets and props are destroyed. Word of Lind’s cancellation and Barnum’s public intimacy also reaches New York, resulting in his mansion being foreclosed upon and Charity taking their daughters back to her parents’ home.

Depressed, Barnum starts drinking at a pub. His troupe find him there and persuade him to rebuild the circus; Barnum has an epiphany that causes him to realize the circus was for his friends and family rather than for himself (“From Now On”). Meanwhile, the injured Carlyle wakes in a hospital with Wheeler by his side and they share an intimate moment together.

Barnum leaves and finds his estranged wife, and they decide to mend their relationship. Faced with the financial difficulty of rebuilding the circus, the recovering Carlyle steps in, offering to use his earnings from his share of the circus’s profits to rebuild it under the condition of becoming partners, which Barnum happily accepts. As rebuilding the circus in its original location would be too expensive, Barnum rebuilds it as an open-air tent circus by the docks. The new, revamped circus is a huge success; Barnum gives full control of the show to Carlyle and retires to focus on his family (“The Greatest Show”).